Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Spending Quality Time


Last week, I brought my daughter to my hometown (Pontian) to visit my family. During the stay, we had a great time. That's the week that I really take care of my daughter FULL TIME. And I realised that it could be quite tiring taking care of children full time. I had sleepless nights because my daughter is unable to get used to the new environment. Then, I had painful time that I had to let her cry due to her unreasonable request. After that, I had tired moment as I need to carry her wherever I go. It could have been easier if I'm not pregnant with the second at this time.

After the trip, I realised that although it is quite tiring but it's really worthwhile. When we are back in Ipoh, her father realised that she has really grown up. She begins to talk alot, she knows things around her, she does her daily routine herself, she responses without frustration. My little baby girl has really grown up. I'm really happy about it.

If I could have a second chance to choose again, I will choose to take care of her full time. In fact, I do regret to let somebody elses to take care of her. I wish I could have spend MORE quality time with her. This not only help her to learn, to grow but also it is the best bonding between us.

And of course, we did not forget her father too. Her father and I have to work in the day time but we make sure that we spend the night time just with her and our little one in the womb. I sincerely hope this will be forever.

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