When You Have A Baby

When you have a baby, many things change.
You behave like a Big Baby, do silly things you never did before.
You make funny faces just to make little ones laughs.
You make even funnier faces or perhaps weirder faces just to make her laughs even happier.

You sing lullaby to her and she is your first audience.
Even with a hoarse voice, you still sing to her.
Trying hard to recall every childhood song that you had learnt, just to sing to her.
Then, you start to sing with silly movement, which make both of you laugh.

When the little ones make coo-coo sound, you follow her to coo.
You coo non-stop, silly enough to make her thought that it must be a "Magic word".
You smile by just looking into her eyes and you laugh when she smiles at you.
Every single little action she did, you give her an "over-reacted" big applause.

When you have a baby, this is how silly you could be.
Silly enough to make you and her happy without a reason.
Oh God, isn't it wonderful!
To have a little ones around!

人生观点

读了一遍文章，觉得很有意思。希望女儿能读到此遍。


（一）对你不好的人，你不要太介怀。在你一生中，没有人有义务要对你好，除了我和你妈妈。对你好的人，你一定要珍惜、感恩。
（二）没有人是不可代替的，没有东西是必须拥有的。看透了这一点，将来就算你失去了世间最爱的一切时，也应该明白，这并不是什么大不了的事。
（三）生命是短暂的，今天或许还在浪费着生命，明天就会发觉生命已远离你。因此，愈早珍惜生命，你享受生命的日子也会愈多。与其盼望长寿，倒不如早点享受。
（四）爱情只是一种感觉，而这感觉会随时间、心境而改变。如果你所谓的最爱离开你，请你耐心地等待一下，让时间慢慢冲洗，让心灵慢慢沉淀，你的苦就会慢慢淡化。不要过分憧憬爱情的美，不要过分夸大失恋的悲。
（五）虽然很多有成就的人没有受过太多的教育，但并不等于不用功读书，也可以成功。你学到的知识，就是你拥有的武器。人可以白手起家，但不可以手无寸铁，紧记！
（六）我不会要求你供养我下半辈子，同样的我也不会供养你的下半辈子。当你长大到可以独立的时候，我的责任已经完结。今后无论你坐巴士还是奔驰，吃鱼翅还是粉丝，都要自己负责。
（七）你可以要求自己守信，但无法要求别人也守信；你可以要求自己对他人好，但不能期待人家也对你好；你怎样待人，并不代表人家就会怎样待你，如果你看不透这一点，只会给你增添不必要的烦恼。
（八）我买了26年的六合彩，还是一穷二白，连三等奖也没有中过，这就证明人要发达，还是要努力工作才可以，世界上并没有免费的午餐。
（九）亲人只有一次的缘份，无论这辈子我和你会相处多久，你一定要珍惜共聚的时光，下辈子，无论我们爱与不爱，都不会再相见。

嫁妆

记得有一天在网上看到一条钻石项链，那是一条非常美丽的钥匙项链，第一件事就是想把它买下，准备送给以后21岁生日的女儿虽然女儿如今才6岁！！那条项链可是Tiffany and Co. 的产品，当然价格不菲！心想我有三名可爱的千金，那我应该买三条项链，一人一条才公平。但是，我可没有那么多钱呀！一条我都买不起啊！

这时突然想起妈妈在我出嫁前所说过的一番话“女儿，妈妈什么都给不了你而唯一能够给你的是教育，你最好，最华丽，最有价值的嫁妆便是这些年来我给予你的教育”。当时，年少的我只能铭记在心里。

从相识，结婚至今已有三名女儿，经历了不少的风风雨雨当然也有雨过天晴的日子，让我在生活上的不同阶段成长了许多，逐渐领悟妈妈那番话隐藏的含义。

想成为一位在事业上以及家庭中的佼佼者可不是一件简单的事。不管什么性别，在于知识，态度或身心上都必须达到一定的程度。知识，避免不了是成功的首要条件，而拥有好的态度以及好的身心是取得知识最基本的必备条件。所以，不管是在于规范教育，家庭教育或是身教都不能忽视。

教育，对我来说是世上最庞大，杀伤力最强的武器。教育，可说是无害又能说是有害的武器。对的教育，它能让这个世界变得更美好而错误的教育，它能把这个世界在一瞬间变成地狱。

对或错误的教育不是你或我的定义就是正确的。不同的父母，不同的孩子，不同的家庭背景就会产生不同的教育。错以对纯粹在于各人不同的观点，没有所谓的正确教育方针。

而我，想像父母那样，不只是教孩子读书写字，家庭教育便是时时刻刻，有意无意地进行着。恭敬，礼义廉耻是我们家中首要的家庭教育。我也想像父母那样，一点一滴，慢慢累计，直到一天把“教育”当成嫁妆送给女儿。我深信那会是最有意义，最有价值的嫁妆！

Sports Day 2013

Both Syuen and Ning was so looking forward for the Sports Day. Every day they will ask me when is the Sports Day. And every day, they will tell me how hard they had been practising in the school.

Week after week, day after day..finally, the Sports Day took place on the 29th of June 2013. Both girls woke up early that morning, feeling excited! Even I was feeling excited too! Ning Ning was a little bit down as she is only 4 years old and there was no category that she could take part. I told her that she could take part next year and this year we can be Syuen Syuen supporter. Although Ning Ning couldn't take part, I can see that she enjoyed herself on that day too, running here and there with the cousins.

As for Syuen Syuen, she is overjoyed to be the first winner. I saw her jumped so high after winning the run. She is really really happy!

After the Sports Day, I asked her how she felt. She told me that she is very happy because every time when they were training in the school, she only managed to get number three and this time, she got number one! I laughed and told her that it is always okay if we lose. There is always a winner and a loser, the outcome is never important, what matters is that we have tried our best and be participation. I'm indeed proud of her!

Saturday Morning!

I always felt bad that the kids had to be in the office every Saturday morning, doing nothing at the office while I was busy with my work. So, in order to make them fully used their time, I always allowed them to bring their toys to office. And to keep them active, their bikes are always in the office.

Every Saturday morning, they will cycle outside the office compound. Luckily, the compound is spacious! All I need to do is keeping an eye on them. After the ride, they will play their toys in the office. This is the time when I can do my work while they play with their toys. Well, sometimes they quarrel over small matters and complain to me..this makes me nuts!! With the works in hand together with their endless complaint and noises really drives me crazy!!

Trying to resolve their complaint or any quarrel is never a wise choice, it makes things worse. I let them handle themselves, let them resolve their problems. I do not want to be the judge, judging who is right..who is wrong..I do not want to be the peacemaker, helping them to solve every single little argument. I'm confident that they can handle themselves.

In the meantime, I noticed that they got creative with or without their toys. Ning Ning is more into imaginative play while Syuen Syuen is more to creative play.

Ning Ning always had story line in head and she could imagine many many things which is "invisible" to us. I always saw her open an "invisible" door and step into another place, it's kinda funny. She acted like Charlie Chaplin!! Sometimes, with her toys, she could came up with story. I especially love her story about Mr. Crocodile driving all the small animals to school!

Syuen Syuen always loves to play with every little stuff that she managed to get her hands on. Even a broken stuff could be a useful stuff once in her hands. She is creative though to make use of the unwanted stuff. She loves to keep "rubbish" and sometimes, we make fun of her by saying her a rubbish collector. Then, she will always respond that they are not rubbish, we shouldn't be wasteful! Hahahaha...This is what she did after she found the broken armchair! Happily, they took turn to pull one another.

To keep them more occupied, I brought them some art work to do in the office. They enjoyed it and they learned to be patience through art works.

At the end of the day, they will help me to clean the office, from wiping, sweeping to mopping all by themselves. I'm sure proud of them.

Our Lovely Yeng Yeng

Since the born of Yeng Yeng, life is great. She brings us happiness, laughter, a different dimension of life and above all the completeness of our life.

She is a very happy gal. She loves to smile alot, far alot than you can imagine. Simply love to see her smile with all her coo-coo, ee-ee and ahh-ahh.

Although she is now 52 days old, she reacted much more like a 3 month old baby. She seems to understand the word we said, responding every word we said. The way she smiles while responding with her baby talk and her mesmerizing eyes really melts our heart. And the way she complains while crying makes us burst into laughter.

We are blessed to have her. All we wish for is that she stay healthy and happy. We love you, Yeng Yeng! 

原来幸福也可以很简单

有时候会问自己到底我怎样的生活算不算是幸福呢？特别是当我独自一人照顾小孩而丈夫忙着做工直到深夜才回家。心里总是想着为何这么不公平，我也要上班的啊，为何总是我要赶着回家照顾小孩和打点一切大小事务呢？？心想如果有个佣人那有多好啊！但是，家里多了一位陌生人，我会很不自在。也不想因为有了佣人孩子变得娇生惯养。如果小孩的衣食住行都是佣人一手包办，那么我可不是错过孩子的成长过程？？看来家务和照顾小孩的事还是亲力亲为来的好！

有时候看到男士送花送礼物给女士，我都会在想如果我老公也懂得送花送礼物的话，那是有多么的浪漫，那我就会是世界上最幸福的女人。但是，结婚以来那么多年，老公从来没有买过一朵花或任何礼物给我，这比起拍拖时还要糟糕。拍拖时，老公还会买花买礼物哄我开心，难道婚后就不需要这些甜蜜的举动吗？？回想过去，老公根本不是一位浪漫的男人，也就是因为他不够浪漫，是一位很老实的男人，也不会甜言蜜语不会拈花惹草的个性深深吸引了我。就好像，妈妈形容他为快要绝种的恐龙一样！所以，如果要把送不送花或礼物来衡量幸不幸福，那是有多么肤浅的想法啊！

后来又想，有钱是不是就是幸福啊？？能住在大洋房，驾大汽车，想买什么就买，想出国旅行就出，那算不算幸福呢？？有钱真的很好，有钱万事通！深入一层的思考，钱其实是一个很可怕的东西！它能让一个人丧心病狂，它能让一个人贪得无厌，它能让一个人变得无情无义，慢慢地把你变成魔鬼！看来财富和幸福根本扯不上瓜葛

那幸福到底是什么？？幸福是一种什么样的感觉？？它的味道是怎样的？？

直到那天晚上，像平时一样，我下了班，赶着载孩子回家后便开始在厨房下厨。下厨时，不轻易地听见老公和女儿的对话。俩父女竟然在那儿打情骂俏！那一刻，感觉很幸福！！原来幸福是这样的。对我来说，幸福就是当一件很不耀眼，很简单的举动都能让你在心里甜蜜蜜地偷笑，嘴角很自然地往上扬，那就叫做“幸福”！

而幸福的感觉和味道就好像当外面下着倾盆大雨时，你和你心爱的人在一间温暖的家中享用着热乎乎，香喷喷的私房菜，让你觉得很安全，很温暖，很舒服。。原来，幸福也可以很简单！